Non-medical home care costs a national median of $35 an hour, per the CareScout Cost of Care Survey 2025 published by Genworth (up 3% year over year). If your goal is helping your mom or dad stay in their own home instead of moving to assisted living, that hourly figure is the number to start planning around.
"Age in place home care" simply means bringing help into the home so an older person can keep living there safely and comfortably. For many families it starts small — someone to drive to appointments, cook a few meals, help with a bath — and grows over time. The right amount of help, arranged well, can delay or avoid a move entirely.
What home care actually covers
Home care splits into two broad categories, and knowing the difference saves you money and confusion. Non-medical care (also called personal care or companion care) handles daily life: meals, laundry, errands, bathing, dressing, medication reminders, and plain company. Skilled home health is medical: wound care, injections, physical or occupational therapy, and nursing — delivered by licensed professionals, usually short-term and doctor-ordered.
Most families aging a parent in place lean heavily on the non-medical side. It's the everyday support that keeps a home running and a person safe — and it's the part that isn't usually covered by insurance.
What it costs and what drives the price
Again, the national median for non-medical home care is $35 an hour, per the CareScout Cost of Care Survey 2025 published by Genworth. But your actual number depends on a handful of things: where you live, how many hours you need, the day and time (nights, weekends and holidays cost more), and whether the caregiver handles hands-on personal care versus lighter companionship.
The math matters. A few hours of help two or three days a week is very different from around-the-clock coverage. Round-the-clock in-home care can climb past the cost of assisted living or a nursing home, which is why many families use a mix: paid caregivers for key hours, family for the rest, and technology to fill the quiet gaps.
How to choose a provider
You have two routes: hire through an agency, or hire an independent caregiver directly. An agency costs more per hour but handles screening, payroll, taxes, insurance, and finding a backup when your caregiver is sick. Hiring privately is cheaper but puts all of that on you. For most first-time families, an agency is worth the premium for the peace of mind.
- 1List the specific help needed — bathing, meals, driving, reminders — and roughly how many hours a week.
- 2Get quotes from 2-3 agencies and confirm licensing, insurance, and background-check practices.
- 3Ask how they screen, train, and supervise caregivers, and what happens if yours is unavailable.
- 4Meet the proposed caregiver before starting — personality fit matters as much as skills.
- 5Start with a trial period, then adjust hours up or down as you see how it goes.
Whichever route you choose, do a walk-through of the home itself. Grab bars in the bathroom, brighter lighting, a clear path free of loose rugs, and a plan for reaching help in a fall are often as important as the caregiver's hours.
Questions to ask before you hire
- Are caregivers your employees, and are they bonded and insured?
- How do you run background checks, and how often?
- What training do caregivers get for things like dementia or transfers?
- Who is my point of contact if there's a problem, day or night?
- How do you match a caregiver to my parent, and can we request a change?
- What's your cancellation policy and minimum shift length?
- How do you cover a shift if my regular caregiver is out sick?
Warning signs and common mistakes
Watch for agencies that can't clearly explain their screening, push you into more hours than you asked for, or won't let you meet the caregiver first. On your parent's side, watch for signs the current level of help isn't enough: unopened mail, spoiled food in the fridge, missed medications, new bruises, or a caregiver who seems rushed and disconnected.
The biggest mistake families make is waiting for a crisis. It's far easier to introduce a caregiver while your dad is relatively steady than to scramble after a fall or a hospital stay. Start small and early, and let the relationship build.
Filling the hours between visits
Even good home care leaves gaps — the long evenings, the early mornings, the days no one is scheduled. Those quiet stretches are when loneliness sets in and small worries go unnoticed. This is where a daily phone check-in can complement paid care without replacing it.
Call Mabel is a warm, daily phone call for a parent who lives alone — a friendly conversation on their regular phone that keeps them company and helps you notice changes between caregiver visits. It's a companion, not a caregiver, and never a medical or emergency service. At $29.97 a month for the Companion tier, it's a small piece alongside home care that often runs $5,000+ a month for heavier coverage. Think of it as another set of ears on the days no one's scheduled to stop by.
- ✓Plan around the national median of $35 an hour for non-medical home care (CareScout 2025, Genworth), then adjust for your hours and location.
- ✓Know the split: non-medical care for daily life, skilled home health for medical needs.
- ✓Start small and early — introduce a caregiver before a crisis forces your hand.
- ✓Vet the agency hard on screening, backup coverage, and licensing, and always meet the caregiver first.
- ✓Pair paid care with home safety fixes and a daily check-in to cover the quiet hours.